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Lindsay's avatar

Rather depressing, and not sure if it really falls under the admin umbrella, but after suffering a bereavement it meant a LOT to me when friends remembered particularly difficult dates. So now when one of my friends loses say a parent (which is happening horribly often now I’m in my 40s) I put in a diary reminder for a year’s time so I can send a ‘thinking of xx on the anniversary of your loss’ type message. I also keep a list so on Xmas day I take a few minutes to send out ‘thinking of you on your first Xmas without xx’ and similar on Mothers/Fathers Day. It’s not til you lose someone close that you realise how much that small kindness helps.

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Katie's avatar

As a privacy/cybersecurity lawyer and also a mum, I'm reading this like yes, amazing ideas BUT please for god's sake make sure that the place you are putting literally ALL the information anyone would ever need to take over your identity/drain your bank account/cause insane amounts of damage is secure

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